Yesterday, I explored something new. Something that I have thought about for a while, but never quite had the courage to try. But yesterday, I stepped out in confidence. Confidence that is born of experience, knowledge, and skill. Today, look at what you can explore. What is something you have…
When we first come into this lifestyle, this journey… we often have a picture painted in our head of what to expect. We walk in with a sense of what we want to explore, what we think may be our limits, and what type of connections we think we want…
“I want to know you in ways that no person ever has.” I think this is the real power within a power exchange. To create a safe, intimate environment between people that allows for the freedom to truly see each other. To see each other in ways that no one…
As most of you know, I love writing. And I love to be able to find another writer that can challenge me in my perspectives. It seems that lately, there are less writers out there than I remember from a decade ago that really can offer meaningful and impactful content.…
Driving to an event last night, I was working my way through traffic. Weaving and bobbing, knowing how the flow typically goes, and able to be a bit more aggressive in my moves. Yes, a bit of experience allowed me to do some more advanced moves along the way. Mind…
I don’t really believe in karma, truthfully. But I do know that there’s always one person that sees everything you do… you. And you have to be able to live with yourself in that knowledge. You can not hide from yourself. So do that which makes you truly proud of…
6 years ago today, I woke up to begin a new chapter of my life, ready to start moving into the house we had just bought. A few hour later, I found myself staring down the end of another chapter, with my father passing away. Life is a strange collection…
Take off the self-imposed handcuffs and just go fucking live your life.
There’s a Biblical verse that says “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” It’s also known as the Golden Rule. Now, I am not religious myself, but there is such a universal truth to this. We get back from the universe that which we put forth.…
Remain open. Sure, life is gonna throw you some hard curves, and the natural inclination is to close everything off to protect yourself. But fight that urge, and allow yourself to remain open. Because life will also throw you some pretty fucking awesome curves and I promise you… you won’t…