Perspective Matters. You know, we hear that all the time, but I think we often lose sight of that in so many ways. We see what we see, and often get so bent out of shape when others see things differently. Shit, we’ve seen wars over such bullshit. So, let…
In my pursuit of better fitness, I had to set goals and stay focused. When it comes to a powerful relationship, we must be focused on building the type of relationship we want. To be successful in our careers, focus helps us achieve that success. We often follow that which…
When you finally give in to what this lifestyle is all about, you begin what I feel is one of the most transformative journeys. All of what you have been taught throughout life can and likely will be challenged. Who you are, what you think, all your shame, all your…
Every one of us has a past. We’ve all been through something… some negative space and time that has affected us throughout our lives. This could be something we did, or that was done to us… either way, we carry that along with us each day. The thing is, the…
It seems like only a week ago, the trees were basically bare. A few had shown a couple buds, but that was it. All of a sudden, there’s green everywhere! That’s how growth is though. It seems like it’s the same old same old, and then all of the sudden-…
Entering into a poly scenario can be a scary prospect, especially when you are getting involved with someone who is married. Even if marriage isn’t in play, if there are already established relationships, the same fears can exist. A recent AMA question asked this: I started a poly relationship and…
“A great future doesn’t require a great past.” ~William Chapman Far too often, we tend to judge the possibilities of our future by the realities of our past. This tends to give us excuses so that we don’t allow ourselves to dream too big, lest we feel the pain of…
This journey can be a struggle. We often come into this lifestyle with a set of expectations and preconceived ideas, only to find something different. This lifestyle has a way of bringing out parts of ourselves that we may not have fully understood or even known, and the struggle to…
When we first start out in this world, we struggle to find where we fit. For most of us, we begin to find our self confidence in the work we do, and that which we feel we can do well. The beauty truly comes when we can start to find…
Not everything needs to make sense. What is utterly ridiculous to you may well make perfect sense to someone else. Often times, it comes down to circumstances, wants and needs – and that is highly unique for each and every one of us. So next time you see something that…