This journey can be a struggle. We often come into this lifestyle with a set of expectations and preconceived ideas, only to find something different. This lifestyle has a way of bringing out parts of ourselves that we may not have fully understood or even known, and the struggle to…
When we first start out in this world, we struggle to find where we fit. For most of us, we begin to find our self confidence in the work we do, and that which we feel we can do well. The beauty truly comes when we can start to find…
Not everything needs to make sense. What is utterly ridiculous to you may well make perfect sense to someone else. Often times, it comes down to circumstances, wants and needs – and that is highly unique for each and every one of us. So next time you see something that…
Life… it’s short. Every day you get out of bed, you risk that it’s your last one. Hell, just getting out the fucking bed could cause the end… So if that’s the case… what are you waiting for? Why do you not take charge of life, and take the risks?…
It is not for us to sit in judgment on anyone else. We are who we are, each of us. We should accept each other for who we are, without judgment – but definitely with discernment. It is that discernment that allows us to best determine who has a place…
Yesterday, I explored something new. Something that I have thought about for a while, but never quite had the courage to try. But yesterday, I stepped out in confidence. Confidence that is born of experience, knowledge, and skill. Today, look at what you can explore. What is something you have…
When we first come into this lifestyle, this journey… we often have a picture painted in our head of what to expect. We walk in with a sense of what we want to explore, what we think may be our limits, and what type of connections we think we want…
“I want to know you in ways that no person ever has.” I think this is the real power within a power exchange. To create a safe, intimate environment between people that allows for the freedom to truly see each other. To see each other in ways that no one…
As most of you know, I love writing. And I love to be able to find another writer that can challenge me in my perspectives. It seems that lately, there are less writers out there than I remember from a decade ago that really can offer meaningful and impactful content.…
Driving to an event last night, I was working my way through traffic. Weaving and bobbing, knowing how the flow typically goes, and able to be a bit more aggressive in my moves. Yes, a bit of experience allowed me to do some more advanced moves along the way. Mind…